Elderhood and the necessity for grief
Stephen Jenkinson, the Canadian citizen, is often talking about To be an elder. And that includes grief. The grief of losing someone dear to us. But also grief for a dying culture. I was not good at grieving when my mother died. Partly because she was over nighty, she was demented and sad and she had the right tp be proud of her life. She actually started dying when my dad and later on my elder brother died, that was doo much for him. May she was, as I am, a bit too sensitive too handle all the troublesome things in this world. Masshunger, war, hard words from people all around, maybe mostly in the media that was quite new for her; radio, tv newspapers... We had a quite good life in Sweden, but what about the rest of the world..... I have been aware of the personal death for a long time. The view of live forever has not comfort me at all, In Buddhism and meditation you also learn to be aware of death too. As life is troublesome it's no disaster to die, it's worse to be born