To get out of the hole
Many of us feel like as we are stuck in a hole. It can be a trauma from the childhood, or maybe we been hurt as adults. A common way is to distract our selves so we don't have to be reminded of it. It can be shopping, alcohol, destructive sex, it can be looking for fame. The trouble is that it can be addictive. We can be caught in a bahviour. Often it is better to have a look at the feelings, it can be loneliness, sadness, anger,despair.... (if it is even deeper feelings it's better to first go a a doctor) It's okay t have those feeling, just breath with the feeling and let them be there, if you not are too tired or stressed you can take care of them. If you now what will trigger the feeling try to stay away from it.... there are so many thing out here that will trigger feelings as scariness - on the net, on the TV, in certain newspapers. I have no TV and read serious newspapers. The net is more difficult. It can be addictive too. maybe he five mkindful